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Serving motivated men and women seeking to attain the relationship of their dreams.

Simple Strategies. 

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Yours, forever.

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Life Coach
──
Relationship Strategist

Serving motivated men and women seeking to attain the relationship of their dreams.

Simple Strategies. 

Proven results. 

Yours, forever.

 Come Explore with me.

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Sarah Abenaim The Certified Life Coach and Relationship Strategist

Sarah Abenaim
Featured Coach

I’ve been coaching for most of my life, but did my formal training almost two years ago, and it made such a big difference. I learned how to be a rapt listener, to be non-judgmental, and to help people discover what THEY should do, and not what I would do if I were them.

The 3 Best Relationship
Coaches of 2021

You tried to discuss your concerns with your partner but to no avail. The result? A screaming match – a true battle amongst former comrades…cough…cough…partners for the label of “victor.” You used to be so close… Everything used to be so…easy. Not now.

Having your say in The Link

I recently threw out my lifetime collection of journals; mostly because I want to focus on who I am now, and not who I was, but also because I don’t want my kids reading them when I die and thinking bad things about me 🙂

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Hi Sarah! Thanks for the session today. I really liked your approach to coaching with a well defined framework. You had me bring my guard down in no time and I felt at ease with your active listening and great suggestions. I also like the fact that you mentioned at the beginning that coaching is helping me help myself by asking questions to bring clarity. With the question I needed to tackle, that’s exactly how you went about getting there. I really enjoyed our session and hope to do more in the future. I will recommend you to anyone within my network that might benefit. Thank you!!!

-Aaron D.

Sarah is warm, kind, thoughtful and compassionate. I would recommend her to anyone looking to enhance their relationships with others and with themselves!

-TB

I carry so much pain and shame and guilt with me, that it was getting hard for me to function. I couldn’t laugh or smile or be in a relationship. I went to Sarah for RRT and in just a few short sessions, she cleared me of these things that were holding me back. I feel free. Finally.

- BL

My husband and I had agreed to get a divorce but something held me back, just like this nagging feeling that this isn’t what I wanted to do. I found Sarah online and am so grateful to her for everything she has taught me, as we are now back together and working through a lot of our challenges. My family is in tact and we couldn’t be happier.

- TB

I couldn’t pull my thoughts away from an ex-boyfriend, and working with Sarah using the RRT techniques, I was able to then completely shed my obsessive thinking and what-if questions, and am now able to freely focus on pursuing new relationships.

- AKK

I used to feel like I was juggling a lot of complicate emotions all at once, and things were just happening to me. Working with Sarah made me realize that things may happen, but I am in control of how I choose to react. I now feel I have a greater sense of ownership in my life and my emotions are in my control.

- ST

I came to Sarah when I was in a really dark place. Probably the lowest of my life and I just didn’t know how to get out of where I was. Now, looking back, I feel so much gratitude over where I am today, and can really see all of the steps we designed together to get me through the hardships, into a safe, healthy place

- DD